The seceret of powerful men

Just trust that inna allah la yudayi3 ajra man a7san 3amala wa khiyarukum khiyarukum linisa2ihm and ur heart is safe with me because it is all i am living for , to take care of you and make u strong and stand by you and be your home where u can rest and be safe and be proud of after u go out there work and fight and provide and keep your family together allah protecting them because of your own virtues with principles and routine be a fatherJust trust that inna allah la yudayi3 ajra man a7san 3amala wa khiyarukum khiyarukum linisa2ihm and u are heart is safe with me because it is all i am living for , to take care of you and make u strong and stand by you and be your home where u can rest and be safe and be proud of after u go out there work and fight and provide for your wife and family trusting god to protect and bless your home thru your own virtues  by sacrificing personal pleasures and trying to stay away from anything that u can be punished for thru them. Sins of the fathers hobbi it is real. Farha told me she used to laugh and tease an autistic girl when she was young and feep inside she feels god gave her areej to pumish her. I also know that sometimes when you dont appreciate your health or family knowing that it is wrong god takes something away from you so you will know how lucky u were.  This is why i freak out sometimes like when things were good and u bought drinks or like when we did resignation and we wanted allah to bless it and u ... so this is me akhaf allah and really am greatful for all his blessings and not ungreatful when something  bad happens because i still am greatful that it wasnt worse than what happend. god created man and woman to complement eachchother not for them to fight but for them to  be strong where the other is not so together they are invincible and this is why love is strongest force in the world.  take my faithful heart and add it to the power you have to face this dog eat dog unpredictable world and nothing will be too intimidating whether we win or lose rise or fall. my heart and faith will make you strong and see the light in the moments of darkness.  this is what true strength is and what life is about the journey hayati how we faced the challenges and never lost our  principles or eachother. it is exciting it is beautiful and u cant feel joy without pain u cant be proud of yourself until u come thru with ur head up it is beautiful not scary not unfair not evil... that is how the unfaithful and loveless see it. but not us we are up for anything we have eachother that is our strength dont be afraid to embrace the ultimate goal of a man in this life is to find a woman who can clear his thoughts when he is confused, remind him if he forgets. Stop him from doing things he might regret and make him a home where he can gather jis strength. to trust your other half with yourself when u are tired sick lost or unsure is the secret of every great man... not himself not the bottle and not his friends or collegues and u can see it in evey great mans story .. sa7? a woman they trusted and ran to even on times of war. not their generals.. why? because only a woman behind them can complete their greatness. god made it that if completely eachothers the perfect individual with the perfect blend of mind and heart will have the strongest will and courage and the greatest force that can make armies bow and mountains crumble.   you see god is also tricky... he put a lot of barriers between a man a woman before they can be this strong. he put ego and pride , he put greed and deciet, he put temptation and lust, he put blindness and dispair, stigma and shame, sometimes color and class, he put a lot of barriers between a man and a woman that they may never have the ultimatr power until they conquer all the doubts and fears. only the strongest reach this euphoric state most of them dont care abt anything or anyone once they do and just run away some just end it in tragedy than to struggle but the handful rest.. they change history.